For the better part of the past two decades online bulletin boards like Craigslist, dating websites such as e Harmony and Match.com, and endless pay-for-play sexual hookup websites have provided the single, lonely, horny, cheating, or simply bored man or woman with the fastest and most direct route to meet, date, romance, and/or simply have sex.

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It turns out he's a really sweet, straight, single, professional ballet dancer. And the great part for both of us is he isn't looking for a relationship, and neither am I, at least not for the foreseeable future.

My school and training schedule is just too crazy for that.

But David and I did hook up that night, and quite a few times since, totally without strings, but also having a lot of fun. When out to dinner with friends I would set my phone to silent so it would merely vibrate in my pocket when someone was looking to connect with me.

I swear, in less than two minutes this guy I'd never met or seen -- David -- started texting me.

It turned out that he was hanging out with friends at a bar across the street.

Feeling safe, with my friends all around, I texted back, asking him to come over and I'd buy him a drink.

In less than five minutes, there he was, arms crossed, big smile on his face, right in front of me.

In crowded urban areas these apps often locate multiple people within a mere few hundred feet!

And just like that, the days of being rejected when out clubbing or trying to pick someone up at a party are a thing of the past.

With sex apps there's no muss, no fuss, just the act itself and a handshake on the way out, thank you very much.

When out at a club a few months ago I decided to give one of these apps a try and turned on Blendr.