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You're looking for a way around the games rather than doing what any woman will absolutely demand of you: plowing right through them.
You're not going to find that path around, so stop right now looking for it.
The books go into many things, but by far the most important is that they talk about these games - what they are, why they exist, how most men react to them and how you should react to them instead.
That's because deep down, they don't want to have to play these games with you any more than you want to be played!
The challenge comes in learning how to be that man, what the games are and how to deal with them along the way.
You also need to understand that some of these games, (like "The Test") you CAN NOT get around or avoid - EVER.
You're going to HAVE to deal with The Test in every single relationship you ever encounter.
I usually start with great first dates: fluid conversations, dilated pupils, increased smiling, and some mirroring of my speech patterns, posture, and/or other gestures, etc.