And often, also subconsciously, women let it happen, over and over again, in the hope that the man in question may actually like them.

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However, there is a caveat to this somewhat foreboding tale.

Men vary – from thoroughly bloody nice chaps, to suave gentlemen with varying motives, to Lotharios with questionable morals, to downright cheating rats – and their motivations for dating vary as well.

I believe filtering their motives from what they do and say is easier than you would imagine.

But the common denominator was that I enjoyed the attention from all of them.

Men chatting to women on a dating app for the sheer fun of it is just one example of the ways a guy can lead a lady on.

We enjoy the challenge, the chase – and we also enjoy the attention.Guys can be just as insecure as women can, and knowing there’s a woman interested in you – let alone a number of them – is a great ego boost. It actually pains me to admit why I feel qualified to write about this.You see, I have been “that guy”, leading women along for whatever selfish reason or motive I had at that particular time.Furthermore, I’m in the minority of guys that will actually admit it – not just to others, but to themselves as well.We’re not all calculating, manipulative scumbags, but men often subconsciously lead women on.